It is better to have an enemy than a friend who secretly envies you.
Jealousy happens when someone feels bitter or upset because another person has something they don’t. It’s a natural feeling, but when it turns into resentment, it can harm friendships. Some jealous friends may even try to bring others down instead of being happy for them.
Here are five signs that show your friend might be jealous of you:
1. They Don’t Support Your Growth
A jealous friend may discourage you from trying new things, especially if it’s something they do themselves. They worry that you might do better than them. A true friend, on the other hand, will support and cheer you on.
2. They Talk About You Behind Your Back
If your friend often speaks negatively about you to others but acts friendly when they see you, it’s a red flag. Jealousy can make people gossip or try to damage your reputation.
3. They Start Avoiding You
When a friend is jealous, they may feel bad about their own progress and start distancing themselves from you. Instead of celebrating your success, they may prefer to stay away because it reminds them of what they lack.
4. They Compete With You in an Unhealthy Way
A little competition can be good, but if your friend tries to have everything you have or constantly wants to one-up you, it could be jealousy. Instead of being happy for you, they focus on being better than you.
5. They Give Insincere Compliments
Sometimes, jealous friends give compliments that feel more like insults. For example, if you start a business, they might say, “That’s great, but most businesses like yours don’t really make money.” Their words may sound supportive, but the hidden meaning shows they don’t truly wish you well.
What Can You Do?
If you notice these signs, try to talk to your friend calmly. But if they don’t change or react badly, it might be best to step back from the friendship. Being around supportive and genuine people is important for your happiness and growth.