An American lady recounts dumping her boyfriend for asking her to check on a supposed break in into their apartment at 3 a.m. instead of protecting her as a man.

In a TikTok post, @kuzeewanders narrated how she was once under the weather and decided to invite her boyfriend she met some 90 days ago.

According to the lady, the man was thoughtful enough to bring her medications, soup and other items for her to feel better.

However, in the middle of the night, they heard a loud bang downstairs and instead of the man to play his role, he urged the sick lady to go downstairs and check.

“This man said, ‘do you wanna go check the noise downstairs?’ Me, a woman? I thought he was supposed to protect me; I am looking for a protector! The fact that this man told me to go check gave me the biggest irk from a man,” she narrated in part.